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Inheritance From Parents

 



But who become a goal and final result are our attitude and ways of seeing the world. Along the ability to make all the problems we face lighter. You will always get idea, solution and intuition which leads you to problem solving. Isn't that what we've been looking for all this time?

Emotion do not need to be thrown away or eliminated. So that’s need to do are just align and balance. Harmony in balance. When persuing dreams, emotion need to help spur our spirit. However, being too emotional actually make us distant and inconsequential. It feels clear right ?

By doing emotional healing, we can let go of the pain. Disappointment and painful past, finally finding relief in his heart. What causes a person to suffer from that disease, back to negative emotions that are not acknowledged and released.

Parental attiudes and parenting patterns are things that are very much attached to a person until adulthood. Unless they can finally escape from the lifestyle and character of their parents or caregivers. Then the emotional inheritance chain can be broken.

One of the best ways to break the inherited emotional cord is by using the forgiveness therapy method after preceded by emotional healing. Here is more detailed explanation of our emotional relationship with our parents and the stages of forgiveness therapy.

 

The energy of love and bonding from the mother.

Everyone must agree that a child will be very close to the mother figure, be it a boy or a girl. Emotional bond between mother and child during pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding and care until adulthood. Definitely forms a close relationship that cannot be broken by anything, that’s why the role of the mother is very important for the child’s growth period, at least until the age of five, a critical period for emotional develovmet.

Biologically, the mother’s role begins when she is pregnant and breastfeeding. The condition of the fetus in the womb greatly infuences the emotional condition of the  mother. Therefore, in every religious teaching and advice for the health of the mother. It is highly recommended that pregnant and emotional health needs. In this way, the mother will feel calm during her pregnancy, which of course is supported by the role of the prospective father.

One of the keys to a person’s emotional stability in his life when he is an adult is  when he is raised by his mother. How he gets the treatment he deserves, receives mother’s love and receives sincere affection, know clearly how it feels to be comfortable and protected. Learn about sincerity inn relationships, learn to give and receive good and true love and communicate in the language of love.

Energy of Fortune and learning to survive from father.

Father is a leader figure in the family, someone who teaches strong defense to be able to live.  a figure who is responsible for the family and provides for it. a figure is a roke model because  of his abilitiy and strength in guiding his children to teach them how they should deal with life out there. a figure  who is an example and idol for his children in his ability to earn a living.

 

Why does the energy of fortune come from the father ?

When we were little, unconsciously we idolize our father both in terms of his work the principles he teaches.  Long before knowing about money, we feel a strong emotional bond with the work our fathers do. We are proud of his profession, what ever it is. If our father is a doctor, we automatically want to be like him. Even if our father is a factory worker, every tima we pass by the place where he works, we will spontaneously say proudly “ that’s is my father ‘s factory”.

From him we also learn about many things in this life, how we survived in the midst of many problems, both from within and outside the family. We learn how father deal with and resolve it. all stored in our subconscious, her character. If the character is good and we love him, then when we are adults we will look for that figure to be a role model as one of the criteria for a life partner or to become part of our character.

If the character is not good for the example harsh and stingy, then we will always clash with people who have same character ,but the bad news is sometime it become our character without us realizing it or becomes our partners character.

 

Today's Characters And Emotions Are Removed From Parenting Patterns

As we grow up, we learn to recognize feelings and emotions by ourselves. We see how to deal with life, how to speak and use dialects, how to eat and how to relate to others. As we grow older and more mature, we begin to interact with our surroundings. In the end, we also equip ourselves and our awareness with all the knowledge we absorb from our parents and the surrounding environment. But did you know? The biggest factor that influences our character and lifestyle is "parents"

There are still many things that can be mentioned as a result of bad patterns. But it's not the time to blame our parents, whatever the conditions and treatments we experienced in the past. Now is the time for you to rise, change your life and emotional conditions that are mentally and spiritually unbalanced and calm. It's time for you to decide to do it not for others, but for yourself.

Believe me, if you have decided to take a step, there is no problem at all. No matter how hard it is that you can't solve it, it only takes one word to start it: INTENTION.

Forgiveness Therapy

Forgiveness therapy or but forgiving. Not only to people we hate or hurt us, but also including forgiving ourselves. Of all these series, the hardest is to forgive ourselves. It will be very clear when we are forgiving others, remembering all their mistakes and actions. However, to apply it to ourselves, sometimes the ego

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