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Beside The Medium Of Expertise, Human Who Lead to Ability For Influence Also Determined By The Message Sender


             


Every interaction you make, start from morning until night, it is opportunity for you to get place and influence other people with positive way. Those who are successful everyday will have a successful life.  Art of communication is leadership language.

You can get more friends in 2 months with become more interest with other people than your  2 years try make other people interest with you. because the secret   to the people’s progress is not to be selfish in this digital era. And we must be help and promote ourself.

Everday we are tempted to believe that the best publishing strategy is a mix of tricks and parodies executed through the most vitality effective medium. This path to meaningful collaboration is a fast track to sustainable and profitable influence in today’s world.

In general, communication is manifestation of thoughts, intentions and conculisions we draw about the people around us, mouth speaks from the hearts. The two highest level of influence can be achieved when

1.      People’s follow you because of what you have done for them

2.      People’s follow you because who are you

In other words, the highest level of influence is achieved when generosity and trust surround you behavior. This is the price you have to pay for get extraordinary and sustainable impact. Whether it involves two or two millions people, but the benefit that are obtained are only reciprocal  When generosity and  trust communicated well and sincerely.  

Every communication opportunity becomes very  important and every medium you use needs to be filled with messages  that build trust, convey gratitude and add value to the receptient of the massage. If you made a mistake, immedietly acknowledge with sympathy, save others people’s face.

Principles like these remind you consider the needs of others before speaking. The principles push you to talk about difficult topic honestly and enjoyably. These principles urge you to be a better and more humble manager, spouse, collegue, salesperson, parents. In the end these princeples challage you increase you influence in the lives of others, not to show off your skills or manipulate, but rather to habitually express respect, empaty, and to develop better habits of experising respect and kindness.

What reward do you get ? rich and lasting friendship. Trustworthy transaction, attractive leadership. And peoples like genuine interest. These principles are a strategy full of meaning for continued and profitable progress in conversation, collaboration, and company. The significant results.

Every downfall is triggered by the excecutive’s inability to connect  with employees on a real, heartfelt level. In other words every downfall is the result of an excess of hard skills combined with a lack of skills.

Meaning determines the efecetiveness of each medium, if you have something meaningful. You can choose smartest media to market your business. In today’s world, we must carefully consider the meaning and media of the massage we wish to convey.

Oppurtunnity to get friend and influence people in this time more bigger than opportunity which existed in dale carniege era. But if you examine the oppurtunities that exist. The number are not so important because “ the entire universe, with one insignificant exception, is still made up of everything else.

What is your ratio on in person versus digital interactions? For some people, email, texting, blogging, tweeting, and what they post on facebook are the primary ways they connect with others. This presents new challages and oppurtunities.

By relying so heavily on digitalcoomunication, we lose an important aspect of human interaction : non verbal cues, when delivering bad news, it’s hard to show symapty and support without putting your hand on the person’s shoulder. When explaining a new idea, it’s to hard to convey the same level of ethuasiasm over the phone as if we were in front of them. It hard to show emotion without verbal cues.

"A person who has technical knowledge coupled with the ability to express ideas, to take a position of leadership and arouse enthusiasm among the people is on the path to higher power"

 

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